Think about all the people who have had leadership responsibility and authority over you. Who inspired, believed, and encouraged you? When I reflect on this question, several teachers— from grade school to graduate school—come to mind. These teachers pushed me to try things I did not think I was capable of doing, supporting, coaching, and mentoring me along the way.
Now think about the people whose behaviours had a negative impact on you and your leadership development. Unfortunately for many of us, this list includes so-called leaders, whose actions and words serve as an example of what we do not want to be like as a leader. One such leader from my past once made this comment: “Just remember I will always get all the credit, and you will always get all the blame.” I will never forget that comment
and its destructive effect on my motivation and morale.
This simple exercise emphasizes the impact that leader behaviour has on organizational performance. Influential leaders are kind, considerate, honest, respectful, and trustworthy, among many other inspiring traits. Sadly, far too many leaders do the exact opposite, and they are either unaware or uncaring of how they come across to their peers and subordinates. As a result, they do not realize that their negative behaviour contributes to lack of trust, loss of credibility, and the high cost of poor performance and low productivity. Worse, some leaders intentionally behave badly and are protective of those negative traits, thinking they cause no harm.
Neuroscience has now proven that leadership behaviour affects the brains of people as team members in positive or negative ways. So positive leader behaviour can contribute to creating motivation, engagement, and high performance in people while negative and disruptive behaviour can create the opposite effect. Leaders create a workplace culture that enhances individual performance or they create a culture where people struggle to perform at their best. As many other leadership experts have said in a variety of ways – leaders get in performance what they create or what they allow – and behaviour is the key contributing factor to creating teams that thrive and produce incredible results.
By learning about the self, leaders become comfortable with their internal values, beliefs, preferences, thought processes, and emotions. They become self-managers, careful about how they present themselves and respond to the outside world. A self-aware leader then is in a better position to collaborate and connect with others, unlike a leader who is unaware of her true self. If you want to start creating real change, start connecting your values to your actions, become aware of your actions and the outcomes they have on others you work with. Real change happens when we begin to become aware of our individual leader behaviour.
CORPORATE HARMONY is grateful to Dr. Michael E. Frisina for his contributions to this entry.
