Neuroscience has proven that positive emotional energy is necessary for the kind of behaviour that fosters collaboration. That kind of behaviour skill requires not only a huge amount of self-awareness and understanding of one’s personal behaviour preferences and how you affect others, but also a deep understanding of your team members’ behaviour preferences, and how you will be affected by them.
It is this level of behaviour skill that builds trust and increases the likelihood that people will engage and collaborate; they will communicate openly, adopt cooperative attitudes, and work in an integrated team with a shared responsibility for shared objectives. When trust is absent, damaged, or lost in the workplace, relationships are dysfunctional and work effectiveness and performance suffer.
Trust does not come automatically with positions of power, and even if it did, trust cannot be sustained by virtue of rank alone. It must be supported by ongoing strength-building behaviours. Trust is sustained by virtue of validation of our confidence over time that a person is reliable, honest, competent, compassionate, and courageous. Only then will our trust be earned.
The skill of Positive Presence, together with Positive Presence behaviour competencies, build trust earning behaviours such as:
• Consistency in manner, words, and actions
• Accountability and transparency, including active listening, sharing information, and taking responsibility instead of blaming
• Genuine or sincere interest in and concern for others
• Respectful and equal regard and treatment of others, regardless of rank and position
• Focused attention
• Principled and evidence-based decision making
• Dedication to fulfilling (not just making) promises
• Willingness to celebrate and reward good and exceptional work
So it is that collaboration is a balance between behaviour skill and organizational culture.
CORPORATE HARMONY is grateful to Dr. Michael E. Frisina for his contributions to this entry.
