If you’ve been paying any attention to the new movement in leadership development, you know that in order to lead today’s ‘knowledge’ workers you must know how to connect on a human level. Human behaviour begins the connection. Your personal behaviour profile is perfect to connect with about 25% of the people you lead. For the other 75% you must know how to adjust and flex in order to make the connection, and most importantly, you need to know what they need and what is important to them. You need to pay attention.
So how can leaders pay better attention so that they build a connection with their employees? You may begin with the following strategies:
• Hold listening sessions in which small groups of employees or managers (or both) meet with you to discuss their ideas and concerns. The goal is to receive information, not to defend your position or introduce changes.
• Observe, watch, or shadow employees. The goal is to learn about and witness the daily challenges, not to critique or micromanage the work.
• Ensure that existing policies and standards reflect existing practice and realities. The goal is to eliminate outdated and ineffective approaches, not to create additional processes.
• Be visible on the front lines and always attend employee events. The goal is to show that you are accessible and approachable, not to assert your importance in the organization.
• Model and teach the value of a positively energized mind in everything you do.
Your success as a leader is inextricably linked to your ability to connect with people. You can connect with followers in a number of ways, but all approaches must be characterized by trust, meaning, and caring. Experiences or interactions that are more focused on tasks than on people will be perceived negatively. Negative experiences accumulate and ultimately erode your connection and your leadership effectiveness. Positive experiences, on the other hand, increase your influence and enable you to sustain the connection. Positive experiences and emotional connections with people are what make you a highly effective enlightened leader. The choice is yours.
