Changing behaviour is not something that comes easy for most people. Generally, being human means you lack the willingness to change even when you have the knowledge and the capability to do so. In fact, many lack the willingness to change even when they know doing so serves their own best interest in the most critical personal, familial, and professional relationships.
You see, your brain has evolved to focus on the negative – to keep you alive and safe from man-eating tigers. What’s more, when your brain senses change – of any kind, no matter how small – it automatically goes into the ‘fight, flight, freeze’ response, whether you know it or not … unless of course, you have consciously trained it not to.
In a moment of self-reflection, ask yourself the following question, “Are my current thought habits and behaviours getting me to where I want to go?” If the answer is “No” you need to consider making some changes, even it is just a matter of setting aside a few minutes each day for self-reflection on where you want to be and how you are going to get there. Remember though, that the first step in making any change is to first overcome your natural propensity against change itself – and the easiest way to do this is to learn the skill of Positive Presence.
Honing your innate skill of Positive Presence provides the necessary knowledge, tools and techniques to create the positive and energized mindset that is needed to embrace change and to become a change agent.
