Its important to note that, for the most part, your brain is not wired for the positive – you are actually predisposed to the negative. But, your brain can be easily taught to recognize the negative, then release the negative, and replace it with positive thoughts and feelings. So it is, that a keen emotional awareness is needed for you to be able to respond appropriately to the concerns and needs of your followers.
Today’s work environment is wrought with negative emotionally charged events and situations. A common employee’s question, “How will (fill in the blank) affect my job?” is emotion driven. It implies worry or frustration about their work livelihood (as opposed to an intellectual interest in the job dynamics). Worry and frustration are negative emotions. Emotionally aware leaders are responsive to these feelings.
In a crisis situation or when encountering a fallout from one of their recent decisions, emotionally aware leaders are courageous and calm. They minimize panic and confusion by providing comprehensive and candid information. They offer alternatives and resources. They display knowledge, resolve, and control. They show empathy and willingness to help. They make themselves visible and available to answer any questions and they listen to comments. They encourage employees to contact them directly, not their assistants or lower-level managers. They refuse to take personally any employee frustrations, and they show respect for these feelings. And most importantly, they do not participate in or give credence to negative discussions and rumors.
Research from the neurosciences has established that positive emotional energy is necessary for achieving peak performance, building strong and sustainable relationships and experiencing good health in the workplace. We all know what Emotional Intelligence is. The challenge is to be continuously aware of your own emotions – ensuring at all times that you are creating within you the positive thoughts and feelings that lead to the behaviours of emotional intelligence. Not only that, you must be continuously aware of the emotions of those around you. To do that, you have to learn the skill of Positive Presence, leading you to your understanding of your natural human energy as it relates and engages with those around you.
