
Being the leader people want to follow requires first that you connect by following. Enlightened leaders can connect through following others by practicing the principle of followership. Followership is a leader’s willingness to listen to those for whom they are responsible.
“Listening to me” is the highest rated attribute for an effective leader by direct reports. Effective listening creates a connection between the leader and the legitimate needs, wants, and desires of the people. Paying attention to followers through active listening, a leader gains insight and information not obtained anywhere else.
Peter Drucker said, “Everybody writes books about leadership. Somebody ought to write a book about followership, because for every leader there are a thousand followers.” Although followership is an age-old concept and several books have been written about it, the concept is still a novelty to many in titled positions of authority. Following your followers enables you as a leader to make positive, emotional connection.
Acquiring the skill of Positive Presence brings with it the ability to ‘tune into’ your personal human energy as well as the energy within your ‘20 square feet’, and by doing so you have the necessary cues for making a positive, emotional connection. Remember, people do not quit their jobs — they quit their leader – the boss.
Ineffective leaders breed ineffective followers, and performance and productivity suffer as a result. With a positive, emotional connection with your people you send a clear message that you are interested and invested in what your people experience on a daily basis. People in general do not follow just anyone or follow out of the goodness of their heart. They need good reasons—a motivation – to follow. You are responsible for giving them those reasons by understanding what they want and need to fulfill their work.
