Being the leader people want to follow requires first that you can connect by following. Enlightened leaders can connect through following others and practicing the principle of followership. Followership is a leader’s willingness to listen to those for whom they are responsible.
“Listening to me” is the highest rated attribute for an effective leader by direct reports. Effective listening creates a connection between the leader and the legitimate needs, wants, and desires of the people. Paying attention to followers through active listening, a leader gains insight and information not obtained anywhere else.
Peter Drucker (founder of ‘Management’) said, “Everybody writes books about leadership. Somebody ought to write a book about followership, because for every leader there are a thousand followers.” Although followership is an age-old concept and several books have been written about it, the concept is still a novelty to many in titled positions of authority. Following your followers enables you as a leader to make positive, emotional connection.
Acquiring the skill of Positive Presence brings with it the ability to ‘tune into’ yourself for a deep personal awareness, as well as the influence your exert within your ‘20 square feet’. This heightened awareness of self and others provides you with the necessary cues for making a positive, emotional connection. Remember, people do not quit their jobs — they quit their leader – the boss.
Ineffective leaders breed ineffective followers, and performance and productivity suffer as a result. With a positive, emotional connection with your people you send a clear message that you are interested and invested in what your people experience on a daily basis. People in general do not follow just anyone or follow out of the goodness of their heart. They need good reasons—a motivation – to follow. You are responsible for giving them those reasons by understanding what they want and need to fulfill their work.
